Abah mana?

Assalamualaikum wbt,

I remembered 1 day, i was driving home alone with the kids due to suheimy was working late.

Me: Abah balik lambat hari nie
Muaz: Bukan, abah ade kat rumah
Me: tak, abah ade keje, dia balik lambat. Abah kat opis
Muaz: Bukan, abah ade kat rumah ade fish ( he insisted on this)

when we arrive at home

Muaz: mama, mana abah?
Me: Abah kat office sayang, abah lambat.

Muaz cried immediately when i carried him out of the car. He cried at the porch and keeps asking "abah mana?"

I called suheimy and he talked to Muaz to calm him down.

The kids love their abah so much. And we do miss you so much when you are busy sayang.

Hopefully your work runs smoothly and the project will conclude fast so that you don't have to stay late everyday.

Hopefully all this is worthwhile.

Fomema

Assalamulaikum wbt,

Wowwi, it turns out that there are a lot of things you need to do (and money you need to invest) once you have a maid. Today i went to fomema to get the letter for health check up (RM 190). Then need to bring Lia..yup, this is my maid's name... her name is Elyana (my sister said nama dia lagi canggih dari nama i or my doters) need to bring lia to the clinic, X- ray and stuff. Then wait for the approval (need to check online) then have to go to imigration back to get some stickers.

Err.. what about the temporary id cards ek? still need to google about the ID card for lia.

My kids call her "Cik Lia". Muaz is friendly towards her, whenever she went to sidai kain, muaz would follow and if you ask him who's at the house, he already includes cik lia's name in the list.

Nadrah? Tgk je boleh, pegang.. NO NO NO. :)

Well, hopefully Nadrah will learn to likes Cik Lia too. and hopefully she'll be maid yang terbaik utk kami sekeluarga. ameen.

Maid

Assalamualaikum wbt,

Today we're going to get our maid. I am a bit scared, don't know what to expect yet. Hopefully everything goes well and Allah makbulkan my doa "Ya Allah, mudah-mudahan bibik ini yang terbaik utk keluarga kami" ameen.

* i'm not used to having strangers living together with us, but i can't afford to do all the housework on my own anymore.. huhu  *sigh*

Mandi

Assalamualaikum wbt,

Last time I've post a picture of muhammad muaz taking his bath in his so called bath tub; which is the Baldi.

And now, both of my kids like to bath in the baldi :)

Cuci kolam

Assalamualaikum wbt,

Last weekend suheimy cleaned our fish pond due to it was clogged with stones. Budak2 ni throw stones into the pond, tak tau la during my open house hari tu or mmg daily activities of my own kids..sian ikan2 tu.

Anyway, the process was long and tedious, he started at 9 am and only finishes around 4 pm - with some break in betweens la..

 Can you see muaz? he really2 wanted to go into the pond :)

I laid a tikar at the porch so that the kids can have a break too during the process, nasib baik la porch tu ade kipas, best jugak la baring sambil minum susu.

Jamuan Raya Taska TM

Assalamualaikum wbt,

Went to Jamuan raya taska TM just now, it was meriah and there were lots of food. I was among the earliest at the dining table as i wanted to grab a KFC before habis... sib baik dpt seketul.

Suheimy was there too, Muaz was having a blast with us and after he got bored waiting for us to finish eating, he went to play with his friends.

And I think Muaz was the only one whose not wearing baju raya, sorry la Muaz, mama tak tau plak kena bawak baju raya.. huhu..

I really wish Nadrah was here, she would have enjoyed the event very much.. huhu.. sian adik nadrah. Takpelah, next year ek! :)

Open house + Raya

ASsalamualaikum wbt,

I really2 want to update about our hari raya and our open house. But tak best la update without pictures kan.

I did not manage to snap any pictures during the open house - super duper bizi since masak sendiri and alhamdulillah ramai org datang. But i noticed some of my friends and relatives ada snap gambar. Please share with me the pictures yeeeeee....

As for hari raya, somebody (by somebody, i mean muaz or nadrah la kan) must have changed our camera setup, so all the pictures were blur and shaking. so kitaorg takde raya pictures - i need to get the pictures from my sister's camera... huhu..

adik, if you are reading this, email la kat k ja gambar2 rayeee...

Baju melayu 2

assalamualaikum wbt,

In conjuction with my previous blog entry... this is the picture of en hubby in baju melayu on that day.

haven't had the time to update my raya and open house entry yet.. 

Baju Melayu

assalamualaikum wbt.

Today, for the first time since we are married, my hubby wore a complete set of baju melayu (beserta sampin and songkok) to the office - ada jamuan raya katanye, En Rafaii suh seme pakai baju melayu.

Ye ke yang? jgn pakai baju melayu pg masjid ade majlis lain plak.. huhu..

Lately a bit saiko sbb selalu dgr kisah org kawin 2 then kantoi. Men can be very creative in leading double life! bab2 nak romantic dgn isteri tak creative plak! huhu.. except for my hubby la.. err.. ade gak la kekadang dia creative ;)

 And to make it worse, usually during my pregnancy period, i am a bit unsecure + selalu mimpi ngarut pasal hubby n org lain. huhu...

oh and to make is much more worse, ade plak la lagi "Disana menunggu Disini Menanti" by Ukays in the radio this morning... budak2 batch saya tau la kot lagu nie, nyampah tau dgr lagu nieee... huhu

tak nak kawan, nak merajuk! -_-

p/s: pregnant women are allowed to be emotional without any reason or warning ye..huhu

Selamat hari raya!

Assalamualaikum wbt,

Entry tak related to title.

During our solat terawih, the kids will be playing all over the hall.

Muaz tgh prepare nak naik motor

Ha, inilah motornye! huhu, jimat our belanja, no need to buy an actual motor.

and this is muaz changing the motor's tyres. :)

another one of their favourite game is... playing behind the curtain.

tak tau la apa yang seronoknye.. :)

Anyway, to those who reads this Blog, Have a happy hari raya and hopefully you arrive at your kampung safely. Maaf zahir batin ya.

Late

Assalamualaikum wbt,

Bulan pose, office hour starts at 8am - 4.30 pm.

Tp saya baru sekali berjaya sampai before 8 am.

Sorry ms Boss.. huhu... believe me, i am trying..

Looking fwd for break-fast

Assalamualaikum wbt,

Today i want to cook for buka puasa

• ikan senangin masak asam pedas + self grown bendi (ada 6 ketul)
• Sup sayur sawi + ayam byk2 - kids menu
• goreng ikan kering talam berlada utk penyedap rasa
• Lauk top-up beli kat office - sambal tumis ikan bilis + petai

For dessert, i've bought:

• apple pie - 1 slice
• roti krim ( teringin punye pasal)
• mee goreng

Ok tak yang?

Usually in our house, we always ate everything sampai licin - thus the reason why i don't usually masak byk2. selalunya masak just nice for 1 time makan. Next makan time either masak lain or eat outside :)

Conversation with Muaz

Assalamualaikum wbt,

Muaz have grown so much, he can now speaks clearly and it is very easy to understand what he said. Alhamdulillah, kurang sgt pelatnya.

This morning he woke up very early - 6.30 am sbb dia bocor. So i bathed him and masa nak pakai baju:

Muaz: Mama, nak baju Ben10
Mama: ok, jap mama amik

I took a sleveless Ben10 t-shirt for him:

Muaz: Mama, baju Ben10 ketiak.  
Mama: Aah, Baju Ben10 sleeveless. :)

Kids are very dynamic and a very fast learner kan? There a many many conversation as simple yet interesting as this with Muaz everyday now. I wish i can jot everything down.. tp tak sempat la... :)

Tak sabar nak tunggu nadrah start cakap. for now her vocab is limited to:

1. Nak
2. nanak! (Tak nak)
3. Bukak
4. Nah!
5. mama
6. abah
7. adah (Nadrah)
8. Adek

KONVO UM 2010

Assalamualaikum wbt,

At looonnggg last, I've managed to finish my MBA. After 3 years of sweat and blood (betul ada blood ok, i beranak 2 org during my master program), akhirnya alhamdulillah, settle. :)

My parents and siblings came to KL for my convo, well actually my parents came for the convo, my siblings came coz mama paksa to celebrate birthday Abah.. hehe...

before the convo, we had family gatherings for birthday abah:

lots of food. my sister yang jadi chef masak nasik minyak, ayam kurma, daging kerutuk, etc etc.

I tolong order kek and buat acar je :)










The convo day:

kecoh coz i did not see the vidoe of how to wear the robe. I did not know it was so complicated! huhu...

my mama and abah - always sedondon + my MIL :)

me and my beloved hubby! kids? hantar bbsitter semua since my session was afternoon + takut depa moody.

That's me! tgh tersengih lebar to Raja Nazri, UM's Pro Chansellor.

It was a great day. Thanks all for the support.. especially to my family and my kids. Hopefully their sacrifices will enable me to make better changes for our family. insyaAllah. :)

Today is a GREAT day!

Assalamualaikum wbt,

Today's title has nothing to do with this entry. I just want to put the TEAMING with PASSION poster's message as my title now. It's a very good training session and i'm sure these empowerement short words will help us becoming a better us. :)

This morning, Nadrah was up early and gave the fishes their brekfast. Sabo je la fish2 tu coz my anak dara akan bagi sebiji by sebiji. Last2 kitaorg tolong tuangkan makanan fish tu..

She is very happy to feed the fish calmly. Biasanya akan berebut dgn Muaz.

Can you see the fish? Ikan koi. Dah besar2... 1ft ++.. we bought it from the original owner :)














The dawai net was put on by my father. He was sooo worried the kids would jump into the pond. Nanti la dah ade duit we'll do it properly.

WAHM

Assalamualaikum wbt,

A friend of mine resign (or is it VSS) from TM. I just found out not too long ago. She is now a WAHM, have her own online stores and i guess is currently very happy cuddling with her kids at home + cook homemade meals for her family + gets to raise her child her own way, her own idea and hopes and dreams.

Congrates Tini Dewi. I wish I could someday be like you. InsyaAllah.

Do visit her blog or her online store. I like to support WAHM :)

Dah sampai!

Assalamualaikum wbt,

It has finally arrived. Within 6 working days only! :D

Let the picture explains:

aiseh, nampak tak perutku yang dah start buncit tu.. huhu..

and the star of today's entry:

hadiah convo. Thanks to mama, abah, adik, kak da and of course Suheimy Md yusof :)

P/s: yang, pakai terus boleh ke? ke kena tunggu till convo?.. huhu

BEKU

Assalamualaikum wbt,

My brain is freezing slowly. Office is to d*mn cold.

Nausea

Assalamualaikum wbt,

I have been very weak and nausea this past week. thus, Suheimy is taking over looking after the kids and because of Muaz and his active/ overly galak attitude and Nadrah the manja gal, sampai pening la kepala suheimy menjaga budak2 tu..huhu.. sian hubbyku sayang.

Eventhough it is VERY tiring taking care of the two kids, i think we would never trade this all with anything. We have experience living together, just the two of us, for nearly 4 years, until muaz and soon after that Nadrah comes along. Some quiet time just the two of us is good, but happy and tiring times with the kids are way better :)

***

On a different note, a friend of mine forwarded this blog to me. Its about her daugther journey. She was sick and their struggle when they lost her. And there's other link to other blogs regarding their journey with their sick children.

I know how it felt to loose your child. Memanglah they went to a much2 better place, tp, peritnya kita yang still kat dunia nak terima... Those who have a sick child, mudah2an dipermudahkan urusan mereka, mudah2an hati2 mereka sentiasa tenang and redha.

*Penat2 kami jaga anak, at least budak2 tu sihat. Janganla kami diuji dgn anak sakit, tak sanggup lagi rasanya.

Blessed!

Assalamualaikum wbt,

It has been nearly a month since i last updated my Blog.

Lots of news, lots of story and pictures to share.

But, the most important is:

We only found out last 2 weeks, i was bleeding and still am occasionally.. however, last week check- up showed a very strong heartbeat.. and Dr Idora said the bleeding will go away after 2 weeks and since dah ade heartbeat, insyaAllah everything will be fine :)

A bit early than planned, but, dah rezeki, we'll take it!

A new home, and insyaAllah a new baby. We are so blessed. Alhamdulillah.