Monday, August 16, 2010

KONVO UM 2010

Assalamualaikum wbt,

At looonnggg last, I've managed to finish my MBA. After 3 years of sweat and blood (betul ada blood ok, i beranak 2 org during my master program), akhirnya alhamdulillah, settle. :)

My parents and siblings came to KL for my convo, well actually my parents came for the convo, my siblings came coz mama paksa to celebrate birthday Abah.. hehe...

before the convo, we had family gatherings for birthday abah:

lots of food. my sister yang jadi chef masak nasik minyak, ayam kurma, daging kerutuk, etc etc.

I tolong order kek and buat acar je :)










The convo day:

kecoh coz i did not see the vidoe of how to wear the robe. I did not know it was so complicated! huhu...











my mama and abah - always sedondon + my MIL :)













me and my beloved hubby! kids? hantar bbsitter semua since my session was afternoon + takut depa moody.











That's me! tgh tersengih lebar to Raja Nazri, UM's Pro Chansellor.


















It was a great day. Thanks all for the support.. especially to my family and my kids. Hopefully their sacrifices will enable me to make better changes for our family. insyaAllah. :)

Tuesday, July 27, 2010

Today is a GREAT day!

Assalamualaikum wbt,

Today's title has nothing to do with this entry. I just want to put the TEAMING with PASSION poster's message as my title now. It's a very good training session and i'm sure these empowerement short words will help us becoming a better us. :)

This morning, Nadrah was up early and gave the fishes their brekfast. Sabo je la fish2 tu coz my anak dara akan bagi sebiji by sebiji. Last2 kitaorg tolong tuangkan makanan fish tu..

She is very happy to feed the fish calmly. Biasanya akan berebut dgn Muaz.














Can you see the fish? Ikan koi. Dah besar2... 1ft ++.. we bought it from the original owner :)














The dawai net was put on by my father. He was sooo worried the kids would jump into the pond. Nanti la dah ade duit we'll do it properly.

Monday, July 26, 2010

WAHM

Assalamualaikum wbt,

A friend of mine resign (or is it VSS) from TM. I just found out not too long ago. She is now a WAHM, have her own online stores and i guess is currently very happy cuddling with her kids at home + cook homemade meals for her family + gets to raise her child her own way, her own idea and hopes and dreams.

Congrates Tini Dewi. I wish I could someday be like you. InsyaAllah.

Do visit her blog or her online store. I like to support WAHM :)

Monday, July 19, 2010

Dah sampai!

Assalamualaikum wbt,

It has finally arrived. Within 6 working days only! :D

Let the picture explains:



aiseh, nampak tak perutku yang dah start buncit tu.. huhu..

and the star of today's entry:



















hadiah convo. Thanks to mama, abah, adik, kak da and of course Suheimy Md yusof :)

P/s: yang, pakai terus boleh ke? ke kena tunggu till convo?.. huhu

Friday, July 16, 2010

BEKU

Assalamualaikum wbt,

My brain is freezing slowly. Office is to d*mn cold.

Tuesday, July 13, 2010

Nausea

Assalamualaikum wbt,

I have been very weak and nausea this past week. thus, Suheimy is taking over looking after the kids and because of Muaz and his active/ overly galak attitude and Nadrah the manja gal, sampai pening la kepala suheimy menjaga budak2 tu..huhu.. sian hubbyku sayang.

Eventhough it is VERY tiring taking care of the two kids, i think we would never trade this all with anything. We have experience living together, just the two of us, for nearly 4 years, until muaz and soon after that Nadrah comes along. Some quiet time just the two of us is good, but happy and tiring times with the kids are way better :)

***

On a different note, a friend of mine forwarded this blog to me. Its about her daugther journey. She was sick and their struggle when they lost her. And there's other link to other blogs regarding their journey with their sick children.

I know how it felt to loose your child. Memanglah they went to a much2 better place, tp, peritnya kita yang still kat dunia nak terima... Those who have a sick child, mudah2an dipermudahkan urusan mereka, mudah2an hati2 mereka sentiasa tenang and redha.

*Penat2 kami jaga anak, at least budak2 tu sihat. Janganla kami diuji dgn anak sakit, tak sanggup lagi rasanya.

Monday, July 05, 2010

Blessed!

Assalamualaikum wbt,

It has been nearly a month since i last updated my Blog.

Lots of news, lots of story and pictures to share.

But, the most important is:








We only found out last 2 weeks, i was bleeding and still am occasionally.. however, last week check- up showed a very strong heartbeat.. and Dr Idora said the bleeding will go away after 2 weeks and since dah ade heartbeat, insyaAllah everything will be fine :)

A bit early than planned, but, dah rezeki, we'll take it!

A new home, and insyaAllah a new baby. We are so blessed. Alhamdulillah.

Wednesday, June 16, 2010

Teringin


Assalamualaikum wbt,

I don't like being in a situation where i teringin something. Currently saya teringin nak ini:




COACH KRISTIN GRAPHIC OP ART WITH SEQUINS LARGE WRISTLET

This is my first time teringin item yang saya rase sgt2 mahal. huhu..

Yang.. nak boleh tak?

Wednesday, June 09, 2010

DUNIA

Assalamulaikum wbt,

This entry is not meant for anybody in particular, mainly just a reminder to myself.

Regarding my title. I think sometimes people (that includes me ye) tend to put DUNIA ahaed of everything. As if they forgot that we will only be here, at DUNIA, sekejaaaappp je. AKHIRAT tu yang kekal abadi, our happily ever after.

huhu.. sometimes i think about DUNIA a lot. Sometimes i am too focus to DUNIA that i delayed my akhirat duties, the most common one is lambat solat la.. huhu..

Well, again, DUNIA ni sekejap je. Pls go for AKHIRAT, insyaAllah dapat DUNIA sekali. Its a good deal, or to put it better, its a SUPERB deal.

Thursday, June 03, 2010

14 hours apart

Assalamualaikum wbt,

I was sad when i got home last night - It was 10.25 pm when i got home and the kids are already asleep.

I miss them. I dropped them off at the babysitter's house at 8.30 am yesterday morning, and did not get to see their faces until 14 hours later. and they did not get to see my face until this morning. huhu.. i hate my current working and studying schedule.

one of my friend said "org lain pun camtu jugak". and i replied her " aku tak nak jadi mcm org lain". I want to be different. I am different. Hopefully I would be able to do something about this soon. InsyaAllah.

Wednesday, May 26, 2010

Another thing we gonna miss

Assalamualaikum wbt,

Rumah skarang dkt dgn playground. Eventhough we seldom went there, but its comforting to know that its near and easy access. among other things we going to miss nanti.


Muaz jatuh and hurt his hand. His showing to me where it hurts :)



queing to slide

tp nadrah lambat slide, so, collided la :)

Tuesday, May 25, 2010

water filter

Assalamualaikum wbt,

On behalf of my brother and sister in law - sapa2 nak beli water filter blh la contact depa

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OR

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Increases antibody’s functions and natural healing.
Increases energy level as a result from high oxygen level in cells.
Helps against stress and keeps body youngness.
Expedites healing injuries.
Supported by Well for Life program.
A bit alkali (SIRIM analysis, pH 7.6) to absorb acids which produced after metabolisms.
Contains antioxidant to prevent cancer.
Easier to be absorbed by our body.
High level of dissolved oxygen in filtrate water.
It has the best of water character and able to ‘memorize’ information very well. Proven!!
Ability to heal illnesses by ‘aura’ producing which stimulate body metabolism.
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personally, i am using RX water and i like it - easy to maintain and no prob so far - dah 3-4 thn.
So, anyone in need of a water filter, pls call my sister in law.. k ann @ 013-3625652

Tag from CCK

I think this is my 2nd tag kot. Biasanya tak sempat nak buat tag org, but today i am in a good mood and hence the "all can do" attitude. So, kalau sapa2 nak minta saya tolong apa2, ask me today! :)

What will u do if u know that your friend has been back stabbing u ?

uhhh, i have this experience. Err... fitnah sama tak dgn back stabbing? to be honest, i don't really care what people say about me, lebih2 lagi if the story is not true. So, i would probably say "whatever", next.


6 people in your heart?
Suheimy md yusof, Muaz, Nadrah, mama, mak, and my other siblings


Do u think u're cute?
err.. no! but i do hope suheimy thinks i'm cute :")

Single or taken?
taken!

Blog(s) that u like?
i like all my Blogs list!

Do u clean your room everyday?
room? no. toilet? yes!


The last song u listened to?
Ya Rasullullah, raihan. hehe.. hajar ko jgn terperanjat plak, aku mmg skema :)

Last text message?
"yang, tak pegi gym, sally paksa ija teman dia makan, huhu"

Last phone call?
my sister kak da, gossiping about family matters

Last day u cried?
during my exam last month.


List down 5 of your favorite colours?
purple, pink, purle lagi, pink lagi

The last people chat with u in YM?
err.. dah tak guna YM sejak2 dah ade UNME (TM version of YM)

Your favorite game?
main tido2 :)

Are u a fan o MCR?
same Q as hajar...
* MCR tu apa kak awie?

What do u feel when u answering this tag?
best jugak layan tag nie :)



Do u think this tag interesting?
yup

Now, tag 10 of your frens
err..adik raudhah, CT, Ila... & sapa2 yang nak jawab, sila2

Monday, May 24, 2010

Weekend

Assalamualaikum wbt,

Last weekend was relaxing.. in a way. Well, i guess when you have 2 small toddlers, any weekend won't be very relaxing :)

Anyway, on sunday we managed to cut the kids hair... hehe.. jimat RM30.

Mula2, nadrah potong dulu sbb muaz takut! we were like " Tgk, adik potong rambut atas keter!"

Nadrah mmg cool je time potong rambut nie.

Then i took out the bath tub, "Sapa potong rambut boleh mandi kolam!"

Baru la my macho boy agree to cut his hair.. :)


And as promised, dah potong rambut blh mandi kolam


Well, it is always fun playing with the kids. Alhamdulillah, syukur sgt ade muaz n nadrah.

Please don't take your kids for granted, there are many people who are still struggling to have kids.
* emo sekejap since byk sgt kes buang bayi lately.. huhu..*

Wednesday, May 19, 2010

BUZZYY

assalamualaikum wbt,

I thought after submitting my 1st draft thesis, life would be a bit calmer. but i was wrong. Apparently it only took them 2 days to review the thesis. Now i need to make minor adjustment, print, get back supervisor's signature and re submit by next friday.

+ my current lectures have started and this new lecturer , we call he Dr LP is a very 'rajin' gal. huhu... When the teacher is rajin, thus the student needs to be rajin too.

+ this month, all my carriers are efficient, everybody is replying my emails, hence a lot of work need to be done

anyway... we did manage to launch a new online store with my girlfriend ms CT... so another round of iklan for our new store: do visit bunny n teddy. New stocks are coming in tomorrow and early next week.

Plus, if you have items that you wish we would sell, do inform us! we like to receive feedback and comments :D

Tuesday, May 11, 2010

our new online shop!!

Assalamualaikum wbt,

Alhamdulillah, we have manage to upload the items for sale in our online shop. For opening promo, we are giving customer's special price when you buy 2 items.

do visit bunny n teddy store now! click here.

thanks for your support.

Monday, May 10, 2010

Al fatihah

Assalamualaikum wbt,

One of my office mate passed away yesterday morning at age 54, succumbed to his long illness. En Hamidi Isa. He was a good guy. a quiet person, very soft spoken, and likes to "usik" us.

Al-fatihah to him.

Wednesday, May 05, 2010

j-card day! :D

Assalamualaikum wbt,

I am ecstatic and full of adrenalin. Why? because of...............



J CARD Members Day at JUSCO Mid Valley

From Wednesday, 5th May 2010 - Thursday, 6th May 2010

hehe... i''ve been postponing things that i want to buy to wait for j-card day..

So my shopping list is ready

My shopping gear is in

err.. my shopping money is yet to be drawn, or to put it correctly, yet to be given by en hubby yang baik hati, ensem, macho..etc..etc

Wednesday, April 28, 2010

Yeay!

Assalamualaikum wbt,

Alhamdulillah. Our bonus is in. Yeay. Cepat la j-card day - i've list out so many items i want to buy! hehe.. :)

Monday, April 26, 2010

Artikel best

Assalamualaikum wbt,

This article was forwarded by my officemate. I like it a lot. Moral of the story, pasrah je la dgn force ranking or quota or what ever reasons it maybe that makes you unsatisfied with your job.

Look at the big picture. Maybe your luck is not in your career, maybe it's went to your family instead.

Cumanya, jgn la kerja separuh hati pulak ye, remember, kerja is ibadah, rezeki from working is what we use to feed ourself and our family.. hopefully tht rezeki is halal and berkat :)

*disclaimer - i like my job and are satisfied with what i get.. jgn salah faham ye bos (if you are reading this) :)
enjoy the article:

Jika kita memberi kebaikan kepada seseorang, kebaikan itu akan dibalas walaupun yang membalasnya bukan orang yang kita berikan kebaikan itu. Hakikat ini mengingatkan saya kepada satu perbualan yang berlaku sewaktu saya mengendalikan program latihan beberapa tahun lalu di sebuah organisasi.


“Saya tidak mempunyai apa-apa harapan lagi pada organisasi ini,” kata seorang kakak berterus-terang.


“Mengapa?” balas saya.


“Organisasi ini dipenuhi oleh kaki bodek dan kaki ampu. Saya terseksa bekerja secara ikhlas di sini. Tidak pernah dihargai, tidak ada ganjaran yang wajar. Saya bukannya orang yang bermuka-muka. Tak pandai saya nak ampu-ampu orang atas, Fokus saya kepada kerja sahaja.”


Kakak itu sebenarnya adalah peserta program yang paling senior. Telah berpuluh tahun bekerja dalam organisasi tersebut. Itu adalah kali terakhir dia mengikuti program latihan. Enam bulan lagi dia akan bersara. Kesempatan yang diberikan kepadanya dalam sesi memperkenalkan diri itu telah digunakannya sepenuhnya untuk meluahkan rasa kecewa dan marahnya sepanjang berkhidmat di situ. Sungguh, dia kecewa sekali. Siapa tidak marah, jika bekerja secara ikhlas dan gigih tetapi tidak pernah dinaikkan pangkat atau mendapat kenaikan gaji?


Sewaktu rehat, sambil minum-minum dan berbual santai saya bertanya kepadanya, “kakak punya berapa orang anak?”


Sengaja saya bertanya soal-soal “di luar kotak” agar ketegangan dalam sesi sebelumnya dapat diredakan.


“Oh ramai encik…”


“Bagaimana dengan anak-anak kakak?”

Wah, saya lihat dia begitu ceria apabila mula menceritakan tentang anak-anaknya. Boleh dikatakan semua anak-anaknya berjaya dalam profesion masing-masing. Ada yang menjadi doktor, jurutera, pensyarah dan sebagainya. Malah seorang anaknya telah menjadi hafiz.


“Kakak, boleh saya bertanya?”


“Tanyalah encik…” ujar kakak itu sambil tersenyum. Mendung di wajahnya sudah berlalu. Dia begitu teruja bila bercerita tentang anak-anaknya. Memang, semua anak-anaknya menjadi.


“Jika kakak diberi pilihan, antara anak-anak yang “menjadi” dengan naik gaji, mana yang kakak pilih?”


Belum sempat dia menjawab, saya bertanya lagi, “antara kakak naik pangkat dengan anak-anak berjaya dalam karier mereka, mana yang kakak pilih?”


Dengan cepat kakak itu menjawab, “hati ibu encik… tentulah saya pilih anak-anak saya menjadi walaupun tidak naik gaji atau dapat pangkat. Anak-anak adalah harta kita yang paling berharga!”


Saya tersenyum. Hati ibu, begitulah semestinya.


“Kakak, sebenarnya keikhlasan dan kegigihan kakak bekerja dalam organisasi ini telah mendapat ganjaran…” kata saya perlahan. Hampir berbisik.


“Maksud encik?”


“Allah telah membalas dengan ganjaran yang lebih baik dan lebih kakak lebih sukai. Bila kakak ikhlas bekerja dalam organisasi ini, Allah berikan kepada kakak anak-anak yang menjadi.”


“Tidak pernah saya terfikir begitu encik…”


“Allah Maha Berkuasa. Ada kalanya takdir dan perbuatan-Nya terlalu misteri dan rahsia untuk dijangkau oleh pemikiran kita. Tetapi yakinlah what you give, you get back. Itu hukum sunatullah dalam hubungan sesama manusia. Kebaikan yang kita buat akan kembali kepada kita. Yakinlah.”


“Walaupun bukan daripada seseorang atau sesuatu pihak yang kita berikan kebaikan itu?”


“Maksud kakak?”


“Macam ni, saya buat kebaikan kepada organisasi tempat saya bekerja, tapi Allah berikan kebaikan kepada keluarga. Pembalasan Allah bukan di tempat saya bekerja, sebaliknya diberikan dalam keluarga saya. Begitukah encik?”


“Itulah yang saya katakan tadi, takdir Allah kekadang terlalu misteri. Tetapi ketetapannya mutlak dan muktamad, siapa yang memberi kebaikan akan dibalas dengan kebaikan. Dalam istilah biasa itu dipanggil golden rule!”


Kakak itu termenung. Mungkin memikirkan pertalian dan kaitan antara apa yang berlaku dalam organisasi dengan familinya.


“Metafora atau analoginya begini. Katalah kita sedang memandu di satu jalan yang mempunyai dua atau tiga lorong. Penuh sesak. Tiba-tiba sebuah kereta yang tersalah lorong di sebelah memberi isyarat untuk masuk ke lorong kita. Kerana simpati melihat dia terkial-kial memberi isyarat, kita pun beralah, lalu memberi laluan untuk kereta itu masuk di hadapan kita…”


Saya berhenti seketika mengambil nafas sambil mencari reaksi. Saya lihat kakak itu mendengar penuh minat. Dia meneliti metafora yang saya sampaikan dengan begitu teliti.


“Kemudian kita terus memandu ke hadapan. Mungkin sejam kemudian atau setelah berpuluh-puluh kilometer, tiba-tiba kita pula yang tersalah lorong. Kita pula yang memberi lampu isyarat untuk masuk ke lorong sebelah. Soalnya logikkah kalau kita mengharapkan kereta yang kita bantu sebelumnya memberi laluan untuk kita?”


Kakak itu tersenyum dan berkata, “tak logik encik. Kereta yang kita bantu tadi entah ke mana perginya.”


“Tapi ada tak kereta lain yang simpati dan memberi laluan untuk kita?’


“Pasti ada! Insya-Allah.”


“Ya, begitulah. Padahal kereta itu tidak pernah sekali pun kita tolong. Tetapi Allahlah yang menggerakkan hati pemandunya untuk memberi laluan kepada kita. Orang yang kita beri kebaikan, tidak ada di situ untuk membalas kebaikan kita… Tetapi Allah menggerakkan hati orang lain, yang tidak pernah merasa kebaikan kita untuk membalas kebaikan kita tadi.”


“Subhanallah!”


“Begitu dalam litar di jalan raya dan begitu jualah litar dalam kehidupan manusia. Kita buat baik kepada A, tetapi kerap kali bukan A yang membalas kebaikan kita tetapi B atau C atau D atau lain-lainnya yang membalasnya. Inilah hakikat yang berlaku dalam kehidupan ini.”


“Kita tidak boleh kecewa bila keikhlasan kita dipersiakan?” tanya kakak itu lagi. Lebih kepada satu respons minta diiyakan.


“Kakak, ikhlas sebenar tidak pinta dibalas. Tetapi Allah Maha Kaya dan Maha Pengasih, siapa yang ikhlas akan diberi ganjaran walaupun mereka tidak memintanya kerana setiap kebaikan itu akan dikembalikan kepada orang yang melakukannya. Ia umpama bola yang dibaling ke dinding, akan melantun semula kepada pembalingnya!”


“Selalunya saya dengar, orang ikhlas akan dibalas di akhirat.”


“Itulah balasan yang lebih baik dan kekal. Tetapi saya katakan tadi, Allah Maha kaya, Allah mahu dan mampu membalas keikhlasan hamba-Nya di dunia lagi.”


“Maksud encik?”


“Orang yang ikhlas akan diberi ketenangan dan kebahagiaan dalam hidup. Anak-anak yang soleh dan solehah. Isteri yang taat atau suami yang setia. Dan paling penting… hati yang sejahtera. Inilah kekayaan dan kelebihan yang lebih utama daripada pangkat, gaji dan jawatan.”


“Jadi orang ikhlas akan terus ditindas, tidak dapat kenaikan pangkat atau gaji? Bukan apa, saya terfikir kenapa nasib kaki ampu dan kaki bodek lebih baik dalam organisasi. Mereka dapat naik pangkat!”


Giliran saya pula tersenyum.


“Tidak ada kebaikan yang akan kita dapat melalui jalan yang salah. Percayalah, kalau benar mereka kaki ampu dan bodek sahaja… pangkat yang mereka dapat akan menyebabkan mereka melarat. Gaji naik, tetapi ketenangan hati menurun. Ingat apa yang saya kata tadi, what you give you get back… Golden rule itu bukan untuk kebaikan sahaja, tetapi untuk kejahatan juga. Kalau kita berikan kejahatan, kejahatan itu akan kembali semula kepada kita. Kaki ampu, mungkin akan dapat anak yang pandai bermuka-muka. Kaki bodek mungkin dibalas dengan isteri yang berpura-pura!” terang saya panjang lebar.


“Jadi apa yang harus saya lakukan dengan baki masa perkhidmatan yang tinggal tidak beberapa bulan lagi ni?”


“Bekerjalah dengan gigih. Walaupun mungkin bos tidak melihatnya, tetapi Allah Maha Melihat. Bekerja itu satu ibadah. God is our “ceo”, kata orang sekarang. Insya-Allah, satu hari nanti manusia juga akan diperlihatkan oleh Allah tentang keikhlasan manusia yang lain. Jangan berhenti memberi kebaikan hanya kerana tidak dapat penghargaan…”


“Maksud encik?”

“Jangan mengharap terima kasih daripada manusia atas kebaikan yang kita buat kepadanya.”


“Kenapa?”


“Kita akan sakit jiwa!”


“Kenapa?”


“Kerana umumnya manusia tidak pandai berterima kasih. Lihatlah, kalau kepada Allah yang Maha Memberi pun manusia tidak pandai bersyukur dan berterima kasih, apalagi kepada manusia yang pemberiannya terbatas dan berkala. Sedikit sekali daripada manusia yang bersyukur,” balas saya mengulangi apa yang maktub dalam Al Quran.


“Tetapi Allah tidak berhenti memberi… “ kata kakak itu perlahan.


“Walaupun manusia tidak berterima kasih kepada-Nya. Sekalipun kepada yang derhaka dan kafir, tetapi Allah terus memberi… Justeru siapa kita yang tergamak berhenti memberi hanya kerana tidak mendapat penghargaan dan ucapan terima kasih?”


“Ah, kita terlalu ego…”


Dan itulah kesimpulan perbualan yang saya kira sangat bermakna dan besar impaknya dalam hidup saya. Saya terasa “diperingatkan” semasa memberi peringatan kerana pada hakikatnya saya juga tidak terlepas daripada lintasan hati oleh satu pertanyaan… orang ikhlas tertindas?


SUMBER: http://genta-rasa.com

Wednesday, April 21, 2010

tension

assalamualaikum wbt,

I have been holding/keeping this tension inside for quite sometime.. due to various reasons. Camne nak buat? i need to get this out of my system and the only way to do it is by talking to somebody that i can pour my heart out.

who? you know who you are. please talk to me, this is a cry for help. huhu..

Monday, April 19, 2010

Top 7 mommy guilt trips

Taken from babycenter via Cts blogs.

1. Feeding your baby formula

Huhu..big guilt for Muaz since i was only able to fully BF dia until 8mths. then i got pregnant with Nadrah + tgh mabuk + bulan pose + berat turun sampai 5kg!... resulting in susu kering. However, After i delivered Nadrah, Muaz got to drink my EBM back, until he was 2 years old! :)

For Nadrah - still fully BF, except for 2 weeks masa kena denggi hari tu, campur sekejap - stock habis. Hopefully i can continue this...
2. Using TV as a babysitter
Err.. muaz layan gak tv, for the first 5-10 min kot! So, not much guilt.
3. Being environmentally unfriendly
We are trying: 1. teach them to recycle. 2. using cloth diapers - nadrah ok, muaz tak blh... bocor!. but still not all the time. whenever convinient, usually during weekends.

4. Feeding your kids junk food
errr.. the kids call it "kopok". yes, we do give, especially when they asked for it. huhu... maybe need to cutdown on this.
5. Leaving your child with another caregiver
this is my biggest guilt!. I am trying, believe me, so hard to improve this. hopefully in another 3 years kot.. insyaAllah.
6. Yelling at your kids
Last weekend, i yelled at muaz, bile i dah marah, i'll stop and suheimy took over.. i went to shower and ambil wudhuk. huhu... we rarely yelled at our kids. Marah, kena la marah, tp tak perlula tinggikan suara kot...huhu.. kena byk2 ngaji kot, baru la dpt sabar. (this is me, telling or rather menasihatkan myself).
7. Not being able to afford all the extras
well, define extra. i think our kids have all the extra loves that we can give them. extra toys? we try. extra baju? sederhana is better. well, i guess no guilt on this. i just wish we have extra time to spend with them.
 
how about you guys? :)

Friday, April 16, 2010

Dah keluar!!

Assalamualaikum wbt,

DAH KELUARR!!!! yeay!

Pa & Ma : MAY 2010







Best mother's day gift ever! :D

Wednesday, April 14, 2010

haywired

Assalamualaikum wbt,

my life is haywired. my mood is haywired. even my monthly period cycle is haywired.

thanks to the stupid thesis that i need to submit to supervisor tomorrow.

no, it does not end there. after submitting to Dr Yus tomorrow, i will be waiting dreadfully for the saiko comments. then, re-do or adjust in accordence to the comment. then baru submit first draf to UMGSB on 30th april. Then i can have a 2 weeks break before next class start.

Oh, don't forget the final exam coming on 23rd & 30th April.

now you understand why i am so haywired inside. Outside, maintain cool. huhu..

Friday, April 09, 2010

Jeng jeng jeng..

Assalamualaikum wbt,

I am very excited!  why? refer to below picture.....
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wait till the actual thing comes out.. sometime 20 April 2010 kot :)

Wednesday, April 07, 2010

Happy 1st Birthday Nadrah!

Assalamualaikum wbt,

Last Friday was Nur Amni Nadrah bt Suheimy birthday - 2nd April 2010.

I did not managed to update this blog on her besday, sorry for the delay Nadrah! huhu.. mama sibuk sikit la sayang.

Anyway, entry nie byk gambar nadrah je from fresh from my oven to 1 year old gal! :)


Nadrah baru lahir and 2 hari lepas lahir

1 months - before and after cukur

2mths
3 months- sgt chubby
4 mths
5 mths - rambut still belum naik
outdoor potrait @ 6 mths
8 mths - dah start merangkak... until now! still belum jln lagi
9 mths
11 mths - dah ada preference to stuffed toys
1 year!!!

alhamdulillah, dah setahun Amni Nadrah bersama kami kat dunia ni. Hopefully she will grow up to be anak solehah and muslimah sejati  and perhaps becomes a cardiac surgeon or a paediatrician...ahaha..:)
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and, tak lupa juga genap 5 thn our beloved Amni Izzah and Amni Izzati left us to be at a better place. Alfatihah utk kembar kami.

Friday, March 26, 2010

Budak2..

Assalamualaikum wbt,

Nothing much to update. Still bz with my thesis.

So just few pictures to describe my hectic life.

Muaz and his testerone hormone:






















and my anak dara with who is forever girly:

Monday, March 22, 2010

Syukur!

Assalamualaikum wbt,

I've been reading this blog and it makes me feel terlalu amat bersyukur on all the nikmat that Allah gave us.

Ye la,

sesak2 kami di hujung bulan takde la sampai takde makanan nak makan.

Jauh2 rumah kami nak travel everyday, still ada rumah to come home to.

Panas2 kami kat rumah (sempena musim panas ni) still ada atap nak meneduh kami dari terik matahari.

Sakit2 pening kami, boleh pg amik ubat free kat klinik (thanks TM!)

etc etc

Well, sometimes we forget to be thankful on the things we took for granted, our health, our ability to travel, our comfort.

Hopefully we'll strive more to help the needy. Please do go to the blog i mention, and see if you can contribute what ever you can :)

and i quote from my ethics lecturer

"We are lucky to be born into good family, getting good education so on, others who are poor (hidup susah) may not mean they are lazy, it may just be because they are not as lucky / or gets the same opportunity as us"

Thursday, March 18, 2010

The kids are not well

Assalamualaikum wbt,

We went to our favorite paed last tuesday, Dr Nik Rose at Pusat Perubatan Az Zahrah, Bangi.

Nadrah got ear infection, muaz having fever on and off.

However, the kids does not look like patients. Nampak cam pg tmn permainan je. hmm..



and my favorite picture of the day:

Well, at least they are active and happy eventhough their body is fighting infections.. so takde la susah hati sgt :)

Monday, March 15, 2010

Nadrah gets a proper hair cut!

Assalamualaikum wbt,

Lama betul tak update Blog! :)

Yesterday we went to Jusco Equine to get a proper haircut for Nadrah. Rambut dah panjang, kesian nengoknye.

So we went to this RM15 saloon. You have to pay via vending machine as the worker there cannot accept cash. The funny part is, the vending machine could not give change, meaning, the hair cut price is fixed at RM15, of you put RM 10 + RM 10, you will not get balance RM5. Pelik kan?

While waiting for our turn, 2-3 customers tak jadi nak potong rambut due to takde exact change. Rugi owner saloon nie, loosing revenue over a simple, preventable / correctable process.

Anyway, Nadrah was very matured, in a sense. She just sit there like a big girl while the aunty cuts her hair.

see, mcm tak percaya dia baru 11 bulan kan? :)

Wednesday, March 10, 2010

Sapa nak share Microsoft office 2007 Original

Assalamualaikum wbt,

I want to buy Microsoft office 2007. Masalahnya dia cuma jual package rm209 utk 3 users.

So sapa nak share? pls call me ASAP!!!!

Thanks

Monday, March 08, 2010

Healthy & happy! :)

Assalamualaikum wbt,

Alhamdulillah, I have fully recovered from Denggi Fever. Already in the office today.

Kerja melambak.

Thesis tak gerak.

Nak pensan rasa. huhu.

Anyway, i rather being healthy and having had to go to work rather then sakit terlentang kat spital.. :)